True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.

We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.

A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.

When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain.

The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.

In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.

The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

Whatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story.

Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.

Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.

A caterpillar knows it's a butterfly, even if the whole world tries to convince it that it's just a worm.

Take a step that has a purpose of leading you to where you have planned to go. When the destination is right and the direction is wrong, it is impossible to get there. Make a step.

Kyoto was a flawed process. There isn't one industrialized country around the world that has ratified that treaty, and so that is a non-starter.

Being injured is something that happens in this sport. Anybody who gets into it understands that.

The conversation around policing is painful but I believe it provides us with an opportunity to learn, to change and to grow.

Fear first created the gods.

The notion of collective contribution, like the Wikipedia, is a very powerful one.

Once you start copying other people's licks, you begin thinking they're yours. Doing that's just an easy way out.

Big Bang is what made me who I am today. With them, I laugh the most, and I feel like I can achieve things

I talk with Gary [Johnson] every other day, we're on different coasts usually but we keep in touch and - yeah, no I do not agree with that release.