Fidelity is the single most important element in solidly enduring marriages.

Bad marriages don't cause infidelity; infidelity causes bad marriages.

The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal.

Love is not something people feel, but something people try to express no matter how they feel.

The more things we can laugh about, the more alive we become: The more things we can laugh about together, the more connected we become.

Marriage, like a submarine, is only safe if you get all the way inside.

Fathering makes a man, whatever his standing in the eyes of the world, feel strong and good and important, just as he makes his child feel loved and valued.

Marriage isn't supposed to make you happy - it's supposed to make you married.

Fathering is the most masculine thing a man can do.

Parents can make us distrust ourselves. To them, we seem always to be works-in-progress.

Why do otherwise sane, competent, strong men, men who can wrestle bears or raid corporations, shrink away in horror at the thought of washing a dish or changing a diaper?

Men cry not for themselves, but for their comrades.

The more you let go, the faster you will move ahead.

Living is struggling to do something impossible; To succeed or die, knowing that you had tried.

The idea of "human rights," for example - sometimes it bothers me. Not in itself, but because the concept of human rights has replaced the much grander idea of justice.

If the web can be evolved to include the missing APIs and have better performance, [developers] won't need to go beyond the web.

It is narual for enemy to attack on the weaker side of the adversary.

If you don't pay attention to the periphery, the periphery changes and the first thing you know the periphery is the center.

It's true that the pain makes people change

I love people. Everybody. I love them, I think, as a stamp collector loves his collection. Every story, every incident, every bit of conversation is raw material for me.