Leigh Newman Quotes
Resisting and avoiding pain sucks energy-and time. The more you let yourself feel those minute-and-a-half hells, the quicker you'll start feeling those minute-and-a-half happinesses.
There are still things out there in the universe to contemplate and spend our lives chasing.
I've managed to create intimacy with people I know, and people that I don't know. The longer things stay inside of us, the more we think they are black or tainted, but they're really not.
If you want to write in a mature and interesting way, you have to have sympathy for everyone that's involved.
You see things really different when your father is so intimately, so indisputably in charge of your continued existence on the planet.
When I was growing up, there were no cell phones and no roads into the bush, and so if something happened to your plane, that was serious. Nobody was coming to rescue you.
There's a kind of intimacy that happens between a mother and an only child. Which only gets more intimate when it's between a mother and only daughter.
I'm pretty much of the Shakespearean school. Dialogue is character. How we speak is who we are.
My mom was a social worker. I had a pretty good idea of what the authorities can do when a parent's not around.
I was an only child. And it's very much my temperament. I remember playing with a piece of string in my room for hours. I had never thought about what it would be like to have siblings.
I don't think many kids question their surroundings. Everything seems so permanent and inevitable growing up, even chaos.
There was always some germ of joy, some little paramecium of happiness wriggling around, waiting for a chance to get out.
It feels like people talk a lot, in their relationships and in therapy. But my family wasn't like that. My dad wasn't and I wasn't. Things were said, but via the language of action.
It's much harder when you're writing about your life, than when you're writing fiction.
My natural inclination is to think in scenes. So that's how I write, and the issue for me is usually: what to compress for speed.
My dad felt pretty strongly that I know about the basic workings of a plane and so he taught me how to read and set the instruments, as well as the basics of taking off and landing.
That's the thing about parents, I'm beginning to realize. You don't have to see them all that much to imitate them.
