Gary L. Thomas Quotes

Couples don't fall out of love so much as they fall out of repentance.

A good marriage isn't something you find; it's something you make.

We bring nothing to God, and He gives us everything.

Fear is intensified by passionate love. The more I care about someone, the more I'm concerned about their welfare. The less we have to lose, in one sense, the easier it is to be "brave."

A defeatist attitude kills almost as many marriages as do affairs.

Any mature, spiritually sensitive view of marriage must be built on the foundation of mature love rather than romanticism. But this immediately casts us into a countercultural pursuit.

Christian love must be chased after, aspired to, and practiced.

A Christian is never dependent on the response of others to grow spiritually. It's our own heart's decisions that matter

Done well, marital sexuality can be a supremely healing experience.

The older I get the more I realize that a significant portion of a parent's happiness or sadness in middle-age will be directly impacted by how closely our children are walking with the Lord.

Having children made me confront my true fears and trust in God many times over in a much more intensified manner.