Shannon L. Alder Quotes

You will know you are in love when it doesn't matter if you sit in heaven or hell with that special someone just as long as they can make you laugh, while you put out the fires.

The definition of hell is two people in a relationship that is starved for love and unable to fulfill that need.

You won't find angels in hell, only demons that know how to play with yours.

God's plan will never look easy when you are sitting in hell. KEEP MOVING!

Rationalizing is another road that leads to hell.

In the end, a lack of compatibility is what ruins relationships. You can't force someone to be an eagle when they are a duck. Nobody wants to fly solo. Dreams were meant to be shared together.

Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.

The only person I compete with is Satan. If that happens to be you, then could you please move out of the way? You’re standing in Christ’s spot.

God can deliver you so well that some people won’t believe your testimony.

Sometimes, it will never make sense until you find the right path that makes sense to you and no one else.

No one likes a person that "should of" all over the place.

Death says a million words that the heart can't pen.

You will never know love's depth, until it is gone.

To know your life purpose is to connect with a higher power.

Empowered Women 101: If he has to destroy other people to raise your self esteem and level of trust then he is not a son of God and guess what your not a daughter of God for letting him do it.

You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can control who “thinks” they have control over you.

The only people you have to look out for in life are the people that don't care about anything or anyone. These are the people that end up teaching your children.

We live with the scars we choose.

An encounter with God demands a response. An encounter with Satan demands your God's response.

Religious guilt will never grow the kind of love you want in someone.

He said, “If God lived on Earth people would stalk his Facebook page and leave nasty comments on his Pinterest site.” Then it sunk in- timing was everything and social media was the devil.

Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.

There will always be people afraid of the monsters in the night. They are usually the ones that look for them because they have proven they exist in themselves.

While you were busy trying to prove God stands behind you, God was before me lighting the trail, so he could lead us both.

She was a collector of reflections looking for souls that could see deeply inside her soul.

Some of life's greatest wisdom comes from observing the lives of very lost people.

Clarity and focus doesn’t always come from God or inspirational quotes. Usually, it takes your mother to slap the reality back into you.

Sometimes the best gifts are the ones you can't get on your own.

What a trajedy to be a martyr for love, yet we worship the characters anyways because they remind us of how we struggled.

That was the problem with love. It never happened on your terms, it happened on theirs.

If you continue to dig the same hole in the same place in your life, eventually you will be standing in a grave.

The reason everything falls apart around me, but I don’t is because my angels keep me standing up.

There is nothing worse then being surrounded by a bunch of people telling you to do what is right, when they can't define that definition, without a lot of hatred and judgment behind it.

Acceptable hypocrisy is often called politeness.

The price tag that you put on your soul will determine the people and circumstances in which you find yourself.

If you choose to be fearless, then be fearlessly authentic not an imitation of someone you envy.

Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.

To be a strong and empathetic person always requires us to trust that God will send angels to the people's heart we tried to reach, but couldn't.

Hold onto the wings of angels that pass your way. They fly higher than any army that has none.

Why would anyone want perfection when growth comes from flaws?

Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.

Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point them out.

Learn the difference between a person that would have never given up on you and a person you pushed away.

Choosing a mate is not a matter of can they do the job, rather will they. A partner of "potential" doesn't make for a happy marriage. Their actions have to be in line with your needs.

It is not until you find yourself lost in the silence that you will learn to let go because everyone has let go of you.

Addiction by any other name is love.

When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of their content of understanding.

The only chains you should wear in life are the chains of commitment.

Never be a slave of loyalty to unloyal people.

A broken soul doesn't invest in boundaries because the world has crossed them, without mercy.